Why you get more done when someone's in the room
Nobody's helping. Nobody's watching. They're just there, and the task that was impossible alone gets done. Here's why company works, and how to get it when you're on your own.
You've noticed it, even if you've never named it. The tax return that was impossible at home gets done in a café. The report you'd avoided for a week gets written on a video call with a friend who's doing her own thing. Nobody helped. Nobody checked. They were just there.
That's body doubling, and it's one of the most reliable tools there is for getting started. The catch is that it seems to need another person. It mostly doesn't. Here's why it works and how to get it when you're on your own.
What's actually happening
Body doubling means doing a task with someone else present, in person or on a call, while they get on with their own work. CHADD describes it as having someone around whose presence helps you start, stay with a task and finish it. ADDitude has written about it for years as a practical strategy for people with ADHD, and plenty of people without ADHD swear by it too.
Nobody's entirely sure why it works, and the usual explanations probably all contribute a bit:
- You've committed to a time and place. Agreeing to sit with someone at two o'clock removes the "when shall I start?" decision, which is the one that usually stalls.
- Someone would notice. Not in a policing way. Just enough that opening a new tab for twenty minutes feels slightly odd.
- Their calm is contagious. Someone quietly working next to you sets a tempo. You fall into it.
- Wandering off is harder. Getting up to make a fourth coffee is easy alone. It's a small social event with someone there.
Notice what's not on the list: help, supervision or advice. The body double doesn't need to know what you're doing. That's what makes it so easy to arrange.
How to set it up in person
- Ask plainly. "Would you sit with me for half an hour while I do my expenses? You don't have to do anything." Most people say yes, and a lot of them will bring their own dreaded task.
- Use strangers. A café or library counts. You don't need to know anyone. The hum of other people working is enough.
- Agree not to chat. The whole thing collapses if the session becomes a conversation. Say hello, say what you're each doing, then quiet until the end.
How to set it up online
This is where it gets useful for people who live or work alone.
- A call with a friend. Cameras on, microphones off. At the start, each of you says the one thing you're doing. At the end, each of you says how it went. In between, silence. Thirty minutes is plenty.
- Co-working sessions. There are communities built entirely around this: you join a scheduled call with strangers, state a goal, work, and report back. Search for "virtual co-working" or "body doubling sessions" and you'll find both free and paid ones.
- "Study with me" videos. A recording of someone working, often with a visible timer. Not as strong as a live person, but surprisingly effective, and available at three in the morning.
- A group chat. "Doing the report until 3" posted in a chat, then "done" afterwards. Body doubling by text. Weaker, but it still works, and it's always there.
What to do in the session
Company gets you to the desk. It doesn't choose your task. A few things make a session actually produce something:
- Pick one thing before you start. One line, not a category. Say it out loud to your body double. "I'm doing the invoice" is far more binding than "I'm doing some admin".
- Hide everything else. Close the list, close the tabs. Your body double is doing the job of keeping you in the seat. Don't undo it by leaving forty other things in view.
- Set a timer. Twenty minutes together, then a check-in. Five if the task is the kind you've been avoiding for a week. The timer gives the session edges and the check-in gives it a finish line.
- Have the next thing ready. When the timer ends, the natural move is to chat. Instead, each of you names the next task and starts again. Two or three rounds in one session is normal.
When there's nobody at all
Every part of body doubling can be faked, at least partly, when you're alone:
- The commitment to a time becomes a timer you start. Pressing play is the appointment.
- Someone noticing becomes a message to a friend saying what you're doing, or just saying it out loud to an empty room. It sounds daft. It works.
- The tempo becomes a café, a study-with-me video, or background noise that sounds like other people.
- Wandering off being harder becomes phone in another room and one thing on the screen.
Stacked together, these get most people through most tasks. Not as well as a real person, but far better than sitting alone with the whole list open.
Don't feel odd about needing it
Some people worry that relying on company to do a tax return means something's wrong with them. It doesn't. Plenty of people can't exercise without a class or write without a deadline. Needing a body double is the same thing. It's not a weakness. It's knowing what conditions you work in, and arranging them.
One thing, hidden list, timer, next
Whether you've got a body double or not, the loop inside the session is the same, and it's the loop OneList is built around: star one thing as Now, start a short timer that hides everything else, and have the next thing lined up when it ends. Try it now, free and without signing up.
For more ways to get moving when starting is the hard part, read why you can't start tasks, and the five-minute trick.